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*SS*, *SN* |
Smile-Smile, Smiles Naughty. |
| Altocalciphilia |
The Latin word for being turned on by high heels.
MagicRopes "flaw" *ss* |
| BDSM |
B: Bondage/Discipline
D: Dominance/submission
SM: Sadism/masochism
A person who are into BDSM can "be" one or more of the
categories.
You can also see the terms "S/m" or "D/s".
Most of it sounds like something physical, but most people "in-game"
will say that 50-75 % is mental/emotional. |
| Bite |
Can be used with love, teasing or to inflict pain. The back and
side of the neck and the breasts are sensitive areas.....good
areas *sn*. |
| Blindfold |
To cover the sub's eyes with. Can be homemade or more advanced -
both are equally good. It can help the sub to focus. To remove
one sense, sharpens both the body and mind. |
| Bondage |
To tie up,
in ropes preferably. See the page Ropes. |
| Breath
Control |
Do not try this at home,
if you are inexperienced. |
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Carabineers |
In stead of tying the rope
directly to the leather cuff, its a good idea to tie it to a carabineer, and then
attach it to the cuff.
This gives you two obvious advantages: You can prepare the ropes in forehand, if
you already know what lengths of rope to be used. Its also a fast way to loosen
or change the position of the sub.
They are also indispensable when
making suspensions, where its easy to make fixed loops and attaching the
carabineer to them. |
| Chat |
There are
many chat-rooms on the Internet - also Danish. The 2 places we
chat (mostly missie) are
www.scor.dk
and http://chatrr.ofir.dk.
Both have S/M related chat-rooms. |
| Chat-meeting |
Party
where "chatters" meet in real life.
Link
to the meetings in Jutland,
usually arranged by SoulConnected and nana
(includes also a list over meetings in the rest of Denmark). |
|
Clamps |
You can
use ordinary clothes-peg. You can loosen the spring a little, if
its too hard. You can also invest in some more advanced clamps.
You can place the clamps where you like *ss* |
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Cuffs |
You can get cuffs in many different sizes and types. We prefer
leather. You can have the cuffs with fur lining, but if you
don't want the lining please make sure the have rounded edges
and no stitches protruding. In that way you wont have the cuffs
gnawing the wrists and ankles of the sub.
Cuffs should also have two buckles or at least one large one,
this is to prevent cut-off of the blood stream to the feet and
hands..
For
suspensions you normally use special made cuffs, see suspension
cuffs.
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| Deep
throating |
Well, need
I say more. A favorite of missie *sn* |
| Domina |
Dominating
woman |
| Dominance |
Dominance
is the urge to dominate.
The mental and verbal dominance is often
more important than the physical. |
| Dungeon |
Original meaning: Prison-cellar or a tower in a castle.
Today: Mostly a room or basement for "holding/playing" with your
sub. |
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Exhibitionism |
Exhibitionism
is the urge to show your sexuality and like being watched. |
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Endorphins |
Read more
here. |
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Fetishism |
Fetishism
is a sexual fascination concerning
dressing, objects or materials.
I.e. stilettos, lack, latex, leather, nylons and much more.. |
| Fisting |
Having a
hand inserted in the vagina. |
| Fixation |
Physical or mental limitation in
freedom of movement. Physical it
can be bondage and suspension.
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Foreplay |
To make the "right" mood and to make the playing more intense,
foreplay is a must for us. To ensure that missie can give
herself into the pain and submission, its important with
foreplay - mental and physical.
Its like any
other good sport. You are best when warmed up *ss*
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| Gag |
Could be a
ball with straps. The ball goes into the mouth of the sub, and
the straps are fastened in the neck. It can also just be a piece
of cloth tied around the head, covering the mouth. Both types
are used to "soften" the sounds from the sub, and to give the
sub the feeling of not having control. |
| Handcuffs |
Many
people don't like handcuffs. It can be because they just don't like them - or they might have had a bad
experience with a
pair of handcuffs, of a bad quality.
MagicRope have the opportunity to by "professional" handcuffs,
due to his area of work - And they work ;-) |
| Hemp
rope |
Hemp rope
is the mostly used and the best rope for bondage. Its strong
enough for suspensions and is a good natural product. Nylon rope
can give ugly burn marks.
See also
Hamperebsslageren
(Danish) |
|
Humiliation |
Wording, dressing
or exposure with the sole purpose of humiliating the masochist.
Humiliation is an absolute turn-off for us. |
| Japanese
bondage |
Rope bondage was originally used by samurais to tie up prisoners.
Today its been used mostly for dominance-games.
See more on the page Bondage |
|
Knife play |
A special thing - and no, you
don't have to cut into the flesh of the sub ;-). It is a
question, as a lot of other thing, that the sub feel
the tip of
the knife. The knife can be turned in a lot of ways, so she
feels the tip in different ways. One of the things you must be
aware of, is the amount of pressure you lay on the knife. Its
not sure you can see the result right away, but give the skin a
couple of moments to react.
If you think that knife play is appealing, then be aware of the
fact that the knife IS a weapon. Be careful around the big
blood-veins around the neck. They are already very exposed, and
when the sub is excited even more. |
| Knots |
Its important to be able to make some basic knots, if you
venture out in the world of bondage. Its not so hard, when you
have tried it a couple of times, and it can save you for a lot
of trouble later, if you train beforehand.
Its especially important to know how to tie the knots, so they
easily can bee loosened. Of course its also equally important
knowing what knots to use where. I.e. working with suspensions. |
|
Love balls |
Hollow
balls, with small heavy balls inside. They are to be placed in
the vagina where they vibrate and stimulate when the person
walks around. |
| Lack |
Nice outfit...it gives a good feeling when wearing lack. Lack
must sit tight to the body to look good. Lack is clothing
treated with lack, so it look shiny and naughty.
We just love lack *ss* |
| Latex |
Mmm...latex
is, at least, as good as lack. In fact it gives a totally
different physical feeling when wearing latex. Its really tight
to the body, and that gives a really special effect. (missie
smiles very naughty).
Latex is rubber, nice, but a little difficult to put on and take
off. |
| Masochism |
Named
after
the
writer
Leopold
von
Sacher-Masoch
(Austrian
writer
1836
-
1895).
He
has
,
among
others,
written
“Venus
in
fur”.
Masochism
is
feeling
attraction
and
enjoyment
when
submitting
your
self,
and
being
dominated.
"In
a
healthy
women's
sexuality
there
is
a
natural
element
of
submission,
where
the
devotion
includes
absolute
submission".
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Mental
dominance |
Dominance
is the lust of submission.
Mental dominance is, in word and action, without physical
touching or tying the sub, to make him/her to submit to you. Its
the optimum way to prepare the sub for the physical dominance.
See more on the page MagicRope
& missie. |
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Necklace/choker |
Can be made of leather, metal and so on.
Indicates the sub are owned or property of a Master - at least
that she is not "free". In the necklace/choker there can be a
plate with the Masters name on.
missie always carry a choker when at S/M-parties, and sometimes
during our play. |
|
Own/property |
To own
each other...
Often used regarding the sub...
MagicRope don't "own" missie, but he knows she is he's "property"
and that he always can trust her. |
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Pain |
Pain is a funny
thing. In the day to day life, pain just HURTS - in the not so
good way :-)
But pain can also increase the sexual leisure, if the involved
persons know how to inflict and receive pain.
When the body are a subject to pain it releases the natural
"drug"
endorphins.
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| Piercing |
Piercing
is
body ornaments.
The most common are placed in the ears, nose, eyebrow and navel.
If they are used in a sexual connection they are often placed in
the breasts or genitals.
Our attitude towards piercing is they are naughty on a girl, if
its not exaggerated.
We don't like facial piercing (lips, eyebrows) |
|
Play |
Play is when we put away our every day role, our facade,
"parades" and give our self to each other....
Play is our way making love (at least almost every time *ss*)
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| Retifism |
Shoe fetish.
If Altocalciphilia
is a flaw for MagicRope, then this must be included *ss* |
|
Rewarding |
We think rewarding is better than punishment, and a more nice way
to enjoy the play.
Look at the page MagicRope
& missie. |
| Sadism |
Named
after the French count (marquis) and writer Donatien-Alphonse-Francois
Marquis
de
Sade
(1740-1814). |
| Sadomasochism |
Contraction of the words
sadism and
masochism.
Sadomasochism
or
S/M,
can
shortly be defined s a sexual relationship between equals, where
dominance and submission is a part of it. |
|
Séance |
Séance is another word for playing, where play, bondage,
love, mental and physical dominance are essential.
See also "play" |
| Slave |
A woman who, in her own free will, accepts to be dominated.
See also "sub". |
| SMil |
The society for SadoMasochists
in
Denmark
and
Norway,
founded
in Copenhagen,
Denmark
1979.
SMil is a place! A place where you can come and outlive your
fantasies - a place where you don't need to worry about anything
else than playing; no telephones, no kids, no disturbing
elements!
There is a relaxed mood and a nice atmosphere.
We are not yet members of SMil, but we will be soon. |
| Stearin |
Made by
stearin, paraffin
or bees-wax. Bees-wax and stearin has a higher melting point
than paraffin. This mean that they will feel hotter on the skin
than paraffin.
The pain is also linked to the size of the drops, their interval
and the distance between the candle and the skin - ant last but
not least - the mood of the Master *ss* |
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Stilettos |
Shoes with high thin heels, which emphasize the woman's legs and
butt, and gives her a more straight posture.
Stilettos are normally looked at as very sexy. I.e.
Americans/British call them fuck-me-shoes ;-) (MagicRope smiles
very naughty) |
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Stop word |
A stop word is always to be takes seriously, and means the
playing must stop immediately. Find your own stop word, or use
the one used by SMil; "circus" |
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Strap-on |
Dildo
used
to strap on your body using a "harness"
Used for sexual "penetration"... (Like girl-girl *sn*) |
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Sub |
A woman who, in her own free will, accepts to be dominated.
Often people talk about if she is a slave, sub or something
else. Its a question of definitions, and we let you to decide
*ss* |
|
Submission |
To let you being dominated, physical and mental, by another
person. |
| Submissive |
Are you
submissive, you not only are turned on by the pain - you are
turned on by the lust, the submission and the dominance. You are
turned on by pleasing, to be nice and to satisfy your Master.
missie
is submissive
-
actually a lot *ss*
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Suspension |
Suspension in the arms, legs or the whole body.
Often a suspension is included in a bondage laid for the
occasion *ss'
Be aware that you should observe the sub at all times. Make sure
she is positioned right when you take her up, so she wont get
injured, and the flow of blood are not stopped.
See more in the page
suspension.
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Suspension cuffs |
Cuffs specially made for suspensions in the arms or legs. Made
so they don't stop the flow of blood. |
| Subspace |
A state of mind, where the sub glides into a state of total
devotion and sexual ecstasy.
SoulConnecteds nana has described her subspace formidable. See nanas
side om subspace. (Danish) |
| Switch |
A Person
shifting
between being a
masochist
and
sadist. |
| Vanillasex |
A word for sex without the involvement of
S/M |
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Whips |
You can get whips in almost any size and type. There is the
"nine-tail" often with more than nine "tails", horse whips,
canes (buy a good quality, or they can break easily). You can
get paddles and so on.
In any circumstance, make sure the whip feels good in your hand
- you will appreciate it later *ss*
More to come
here...
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